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Books About
Planning

Bridal Bargains: Secrets to throwing a
fantastic wedding on a realistic budget

by Denise and Alan Fields; $10-$15 range

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This is a wonderful book which has cost-cutting ideas for every aspect of your wedding. The authors take you step-by-step through the decision making process and give you the pitfalls, advantages, and disadvantages. It also includes the questions every couple should ask vendors before signing on the dotted line. This book takes some cost-cutting ideas a little too far for our taste, but it definitely made us think about our decisions before pouring our money into just any product or service. A definite must-have for any engaged couple on a wedding budget!

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The Complete Idiot's Guide to the Perfect Wedding
by Teddy Lenderman; $10-$15 range

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OK, I know, you're probably looking at the title and saying, "I'm no idiot!" But this is a great book to have. In fact, I told my future husband that I was taking this book to our wedding on our wedding day just in case I might need it for something. Fortunately, he talked me out of it. If you are a little bewildered by all of this wedding stuff, this is the book for you. It explains every part of the wedding including the rehearsal dinner, who to buy gifts for, how to order invitations, etc., etc. and is very easy-to-understand. They even have diagrams of different arrangements of people for the ceremony and walk down the aisle. Discussions of etiquette also make an appearance along with how to keep your family and yourself sane through this major life production. A book worth its weight in gold!

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The Everything Wedding Book
by Janet Anastasio, et al; under $10

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This is another great overall look at what goes into a wedding and is very similar to the Idiot's Guide. It contains some really good tips and interesting ideas that might not be in the Idiot's Guide but this reader found the font choice (text) difficult to read making it hard on the eyes and the layout of pages to be amateurish. But you know what? That doesn't really matter if the information is good and in this book, it seems to be quality stuff. A book definitely worth looking into!

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Weddings by Whalen
by Joan Whalen, $10.95

 
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This is a great book for those who want to know everything about wedding planning from the budget to the rehersal dinner, and how to hire the perfect wedding consultant. It tells you everything you need to know about locations, vendors, productions and costs to make your wedding day stress free, as well as providing tips on the advantages of hiring a consultant to help you with your planning.

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Books About Attire

The Bridal Gown Guide:
Discover the Dress of Your Dreams at a Price You Can Afford

by Denise and Alan Fields; under $10

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I wish this book had been around when I got married. It explains everything you need to know about that special garment - the bridal gown. This is one of the most baffling things you will buy on your wedding adventure. The authors of Bridal Bargains, do it again in this book by explaining how not to get ripped off when buying your one and (hopefully) only wedding dress. You ask why you need a whole book to explain this ancient white dress ritual? Well, once you go into a store and the saleslady starts asking you question after question about sleeves and materials and sizes and alterations and styles - believe me, you'll wish you had read a book. And with listings of manufacturers, sample prices of popular styles, pictures, explanations of wedding gown vocabulary, and comprehensive lists of accessories, this is a must-have for any bride who wants to be well-dressed but doesn't want to have her dress cost more that the rest of the wedding. The most comprehensive guide to buying a wedding dress you can find!

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Books for the Ceremony

A Bride's Book of Wedding Traditions

by Arlene Hamilton Stewart; $10-$15

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If you want to follow some very special and well-respected wedding traditions, this is the book for you. There are traditions for every aspect of your ceremony and reception. You can pick and choose what you would like to do for your special day to make it your own. A must for those seeking a traditional wedding!

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The Everything Wedding Vows Book
by Janet Anastasio; under $10 range

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On the cover of this book it says, "Anything and everything you could possibly say at the altar-and then some" and that seems to say it all. If you are writing your own vows or even thinking about it, this is a great book. Not only does it have sample passages but it also has tons of romantic quotes from the centuries. These quotes can be good for your invitations or wedding programs or for your vows. It has sample vows for second marriages, traditional, non-traditional, seasonal vows, and appropriate scriptural passages. It's a very handy little book. One of the best of its kind!

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Cultural and Religious Wedding Books

The Christian Wedding Planner

by Ruth Muzzy, R. Kent Hughes; $10-$15

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This book has received excellent reviews on Amazon.comIt's full of charts, suggestions, and guidelines.

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Complete Jewish Wedding Planner
by Wendy Chernak Hefter; $15-$20

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This book contains checklists, information about various Jewish traditions (of which you can choose according to your beliefs), and places to write down your plans. If you've used this book, please let us know what you think so we can add it here.

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Interfaith Wedding Ceremonies: Samples and Sources
by Joan C. Hawxhurst; $15-$20

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This book has received some great reviews on Amazon.com. Looks like a great resource.

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Jumping the Broom: The African-American Wedding Planner
by Harriette Cole; $10-$15

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This is a beautiful book that celebrates the culture of African-American weddings. Not only does it explain some of the traditions that survived slavery but also gives excellent recipes, African-American musicians for musical selections, and photos of various African-American wedding attire styles. This makes not only a wonderful gift but can really help you add some beautiful cultural accents to your big day! Plus, you'll have to read it to find out why the title of the book has so much meaning! A great book of ideas for adding a cultural touch to your wedding day!

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Jumping the Broom Wedding Workbook: A Step-by-Step Write-Guide for Planning the Perfect African-American Wedding
by Harriette Cole; $10-$15

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This is a great companion book to the Jumping the Broom book mentioned above. This wedding workbook is the only one on the market for planning an African-American wedding. It provides step-by-step instructions on adding a cultural flair to your wedding to make it unique and meaningful and has received some rave reviews from those who have used it. The only workbook on the market for planning an African-American wedding!

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Wild Geese and Tea: An Asian American Wedding Planner
by Shu Shu Costa; $15-$20

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This looks like one of a few Asian American wedding planners on Amazon.com. But it appears to be a good resource for Chinese-, Japanese-, and Korean-American brides and grooms who wish to blend traditions from the East and the West. If you have used this book, please let us know.

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Books For Grooms

The Indispensable Groom's Guide
by Elizabeth Lluch; under $10

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It is difficult to find a really good Groom's guide but this one seems pretty darn close to ideal. It's best attribute is that it is small and is skinny enough to fit into a back pocket. This book contains all of the basics of what goes into a wedding, plus extremely helpful checklists including all of the components of his attire and all the items he should bring on the big day. The very helpful information is organized well and is straight to the point. Helpful diagrams and easy-to-read text makes this guide a winner! A great buy for the groom-to-be!